Octomom

Just watched her on today.com and that whole interview made me sick.

Personally speaking, I'm sick of single mothers acting like they are superwomen. So what if your child is healthy. So what if your child is smart. So what if your child is doing this that or the other. So freaking what. It is a mother's role to make sure their child is smart, healthy, and this that and the other. You don't have to broadcast what you do. You are a mother so those things are within your duties.

The fact that you are a single mom doing it means NOTHING. You spread your legs or got in-vitro fertilized. You are not special. You should not get an award for opening your legs to a man who didn't want you..

During the whole interview, Octomom [don't know her real name.. thinks it Nadyah... not sure] was like 'oh no', 'never', 'I do this', 'I do that', 'that is a lie', and blahzi blahzi. She was really defensive throughout the whole interview. The interviewer asked her about Casey Anthony. Octomom's response 'I don't watch TV. I don't have time for TV. I devote my time to my kids.' So a mom can't watch TV? Most of her responses could have been kept to herself.

Overall.. I don't knock her for wanting a big family. Yeah, she has 14.. So what. The Duggars had theirs naturally and they have 19... So what. Yeah, Octomom is single.. Would she get sympathy if she was married but her husband died just before the last 8 birth?? So the fact that she is a single mother with 14 children means nothing.

I do, however, knock her personality. There is no such thing as a super mom. You either fulfill your role as a mother or you don't. Just because you are single and your child is doing this means nothing. Just because you have more than one and your children are doing this means nothing.

Octomom is just a mom..

Toya and the Cafe

SMH.. That is basically all I can do is shake my head.

First, off.. Who in their right mind would partner up with someone who found their restaurant in the newspaper? Like really? I'm starting my own business and if someone would come to me talking about partnering up, I would first look at them crazy, then keep it moving..

Second, I understand this TV and the meet and greet was probably sat up way before time but on the show it made it seem as if Toya just walked in and wanted a tour of the place. TV cameras must have some power because that is too far fetch for me. She basically walked in, said she may want to partner up, asked for a menu, and basically demanded a tour.

Third, no offense, but her mom is a crack head. You can't partner with a crack head. Walk into work one day only to find the place stripped clean. Plus, crack heads hang around crack head company. Just because Toya's mom is getting clean that doesn't mean that her supplier or needle partner is clean. Fool around and walk in on a deal.

Fourth, Toya's mom never said she wanted a restaurant. Every good cook shouldn't own a restaurant.

I understand Toya is trying to use her baby mama money to help her family but dang.... She needs to concentrate on schooling her brother through the interview process. That was ridiculous....

Elgin Charles and Jackee'

Hello, my name is *hide for privacy*...LOL and I am Internet-TV junkie!! Since I got that out the way, I'm watching Beverly Hills Fabulous a day late online OF COURSE!! So Elgin went to lunch with Jackee', Sister Sister and 227, and he thought she wanted to hook up.. Maybe its just me, but I would feel so wierd sitting across from a man with long silky hair. Yeah that's his brand but still. He screams gay.

Chris Brown

I just read an article on BET. It basically painted CB as a victim.

Before I start my rant, let me just point out that Chris Brown has WAY TOO MANY tattoos. It's almost nasty looking. No way should a person's arm be filled with that much ink.

Back to the topic..

I sort of agree that CB is the victim. He witnessed his mom being beaten. Tragic. However, just because his mom was beat that does not mean that CB deserves a pass. CB blew up after a GMA segment. I truly believe that if Robin would have pressed harder that CB would have hit her. I give him credit for holding his composure during the taping but he acted a plum fool once the cameras went off. Life in the spotlight is hard. Performing bad, unethical, and illegal acts while in the spotlight is even harder.

In Feb 2009, CB broke. He had enough so he turned to violence. A lot of people say that since he say his mom being beaten that he should never had hit a female. I disagree. Because he saw his mom being beaten, in my opinion, he saw that a woman could be beaten. While his mom was being beaten, he maybe did not think 'oh a man should not hit a female'. He maybe thought 'oh my mom is in pain'.

I said it once and I will say it again. I think CB needs help. He obviously do not know how to control his anger. That is evident from his tantrum. Every once in a while a person will explode. There have been times when I just want to punch a wall. There have been times when I have wanted to blow things up. There have even been times when I wanted to cause extreme damage. For one reason or the other, I go against my thoughts. That does not make me right or better. Every one needs to express themselves and everyone, at times, need to scream. CB's tantrum at GMA was his version of a scream.

I do not look down on him for tearing up that room. He was on GMA to promote his CD. His CD is entitled F.A.M.E. not yesterdays beating incident. I feel that Robin overstep. Some topics are personal. Just because a person live in the spotlight that does not mean that their life have to be in it. Reporters are always out for a story but sometimes they need to consider who they are interviewing..

I respect CB as an entertainer. He used to be cute and I used to have a secret crush on him but not anymore. It has nothing to do with Rihanna or the tantrums. It has everything to do with his appearance. That blond hair is not cute and like I mentioned before those tattoos are a mess. His features also seems to be hard. Recently, he have been wearing those black rim glasses that are also a mess. I'm not sure what look he is going for but he needs a new stylist and a plastic surgeon that will remove that ink off his arm.

Basically, though, CB needs help to help him get over his childhood troubles.
I will pray for him though because the questions will never stop so he needs to figure out how to make it through them.

Love & Hip Hop

One Word: GHETTO

Like really? Is that what Hip Hop is? The girls on there is straight being played dirty. Like Fab's "stylist". She stupid. Like Olivia. She stupid. Chrissy hasn't worn the stupid crown yet, but it's probably coming. However, that scene in the bathroom pushed her a lil closer to it.

Jim Jones. Dude is high during the whole taping. Like he is obviously high. Like really? That is what you want to promote. Chicken heads being played by weed heads. Come on, nah..

Do you, VH1. Do you...

Hold Up, Wait a Minute

The statement below was put in a letter to President Obama:

"We ask you to complete your journey and join us, and the majority of Americans, who support the freedom to marry."

Majority of Americans, huh? I really find that hard to believe. For one, if majority of Americans felt that way then same-sex marriages would already be legallized.

This same-sex marriage thing is starting to get on my nerves. Being gay is a choice. You are not born gay and you can not be turned gay. People choose to be gay. Similarily, people choose to kill. Those who kill go to jail. Those who are gay can't get married. It's that simple.

I'm tired of people trying to justify being gay. Being gay is a sin and is wrong.

Men should not marry men and women should not marry women. PERIOD!!

So.. Jesse James is engaged..

If I was Sandra Bullock, I would be PISSED!!!!

It's like a slap in the face if your husband cheats on you with another female and then months later gets engaged. It's even worse if the ex-wife isn't dating anyone.

When Jesse James was on The Apprentice, I thought he was a decent guy. Sure he had his flaws but still he was an upstanding guy. Now, he is TRASH!!! LOL

But for real though, if I was in that situation, I would be pissed.

Celebrities do not value marriage at all. I guess, it is just something to do.. Just like adopting a child or having a child. The number of single parents in celebrity-ville is RIDICULOUS!! Yeah, yeah, yeah.. They have money so its not like the mom or dad will have to work crazy hours to provide for the child but still. They are completing ignoring the emotional impact single parents have on children.

It's bad because some people actually aspire to be like celebrities. But celebrities are advertising high drug usage, alcoholism, single parenting, child birth out of wedlock, multiple marriages and divorces, etc.

Like really??

The Game on BET

OK.. So I just seen a preview for next week's show and WTH!!!!

I hope the show gets better because right now it is starting to suck. I understand its two years later but dang... How much evolving has these characters done??

In the preview, Kelly is crazed-leaning against a wall while Tasha is putting some bags in her trunk. Out of no where you hear 'Hey, Tasha'. You know its Kelly because of the voice but Tasha is looking around like she looking for Freddy. So the screen shoots to Kelly who starts walking towards Tasha. Tasha starts acting like a scared little bi-otch and hurriedly stuffs the bags in her trunk then quick walk to her car's door.

SO NOT TASHA!!

Then Tasha starts fumbling with her keys, grabs her pepper spray, then lights Kelly's up with the fumes. By the way Kelly acted you would have thought it was air freshner. Kelly says some Freddy vs Jason crap then decks Tasha in her nose.

WTH!!!!

I don't know why they are making Kelly act so freaky crazy. I mean really.. The whole time Kelly was walking up to Tasha she was saying stuff like 'You are hurting my feelings, Tasha'.. SMH

Now I know that previews are just random clips taken from the middle of scenes but this is ridiculous. For [1] Tasha running from Kelly.. NOT!! and [2] Kelly acting hard... NOT!!

BET PLEASE!!! Don't ruin the game for me.. PLEASE!!!