Just my thoughts on the matter....

I am getting tired of reading all theses stories about how black woman are angry cause all of the black men are going towards white women, therefore leaving the black women lonely. ..

For one, it is not an issue that black men are dating outside of their race. For as my motto goes: Love sees no color. It is an issue of why they are dating outside of their race. I feel it is mostly because of ignorance and insecurities.

Me, myself, as a strong BLACK woman, have no problem with black men going toward other races. It just means that that particular black male was not meant for me. I know who I am and a black man going to a white woman does not intimidate me nor does that event matter to me. What matters to me is their reasons for choosing a white woman over a black one. Some men feel that a white woman is more submissive while a black woman is more controlling and independent. Some black men also feels that a white woman will keep a shape longer than a black woman. One man even said that older white woman (30-35) are sexier and their body is more fit than black woman of that age. He made that comment based on the fact that there are more white women in the gym than blacks. My response was that some black woman might not have the time nor money to spend at the gym. And also, just because the black women are not at that one particular gym that doesn't mean that they are not working out at other gyms or at their houses. But to me, that whole statement that that black male made was ignorant. It is those reasons and many more that supports my feelings for the reasons that black men dates white women.

What I don't understand is their logic behind their actions. Did they just block out slavery? Did they block out how their ancestors were treated years ago? Did they forget that it was the white woman who cause them to be beaten? Do they just ignore the fights that blacks still have to fight even today? Do they just ignore the racism that is still going on today between blacks and the white woman that they are dating? What about the past?

And everyone is so quick to say that a black man is not with a black woman because the black woman is loud, overbearing, controlling, independent, etc. Well, so be it. To me it shows that some black men are just not strong enough to handle a black woman.

A black male getting with a white woman says nothing about me, as so many women may feel. Every black male in the world could be with a white woman, AND I WILL STILL BE A STRONG, EDUCATED, FINANCIALLY-STABLE, BLACK WOMAN and PROUD OF IT.