On.. Fatherless Homes and the N-Word...

I was doing some 'spring' cleaning in my inbox and I ran across this post I commented on a while ago.. It was on fatherless homes and the n-word...

Read on:

Posted Oct. 25, 2007
Really, the n-word is a form of disrespect. It was generated as a means to talk-down to blacks and to show them as inferior. It just so happens that the youth today have no proper guidance and somehow they have been brainwashed to think that that word is 'just a general saying'. The problem is not the 'others' saying the the n-word, but blacks saying the n-word.True, I feel the media's attention is missed focused. Although, gaining the respects of Blacks is highly important, the way they are going by it is belittling the matter. Fatherless homes is a big issue, but since it is becoming more and more common, it is being ignored. It is no longer something that people feel they should go against, but it is something that people feel they might ultimately become. Faherless homes is one of the main causes of all the black crime in the world, but because blacks doesn't see the harm they really pay it no mind.Although, I grew up in a fathered home and I feel that everyone should, many just see it as a lifestyle.

Posted April 8,2009
My mindset on fatherless homes has semi changed since then... I feel that women are also to blame for the rising number of fatherless homes.. Alot of females are having children by men without a commitment first. Women are lowering their standards and are now allowing lil boys into their bedrooms. Those same lil boys are then expected to be fathers once the child pops out, but boys will be boys.If females would put more value into themselves and stop dropping their panties to the first male, then the number of fatherless homes, in my opinion, would drop. If you actually look at the dead beat dads, most of them showed those characteristics even before the child came into the picture. If the man didn't care about you before the baby, then a new addition would not change his mindset.. So it is not solely the male's fault for the number of fatherless homes.. I feel the blame should be spread equally on the females and the males. But until females gain respect for themselves and create high standards the fatherless homes epidemic will continue to be on the rise..